Even the happiest couples fall out from time to time. However, differences can usually be resolved and the couple is stronger for that.
Nonetheless, some disagreements cause more damage than others. One common source of disputes between spouses is money. Why do spouses argue about money?
Worries about the economy
The economy affects everyone and everything, and it can be a significant cause of stress for married couples. Spouses may worry that they are not earning enough or that their jobs are insecure. Or, they could be worried that they will never be able to afford a home of their own.
While spouses may not directly impact how the economy performs, the economy certainly has a direct effect on married couples, and fears over this can cause arguments.
Financial secrecy
Going from being a single and financially independent person to being married can be a big adjustment. While spouses can retain some of their independence, they also have to share. For example, if one spouse is in debt, this should be shared. Financial disagreements often arise when details like this are kept secret. Secrecy can erode the trust in a relationship.
Spending habits
Different financial priorities can also cause tension in a marriage. For instance, one spouse may want to travel for a year, while the other wants to settle down, buy a house and start a family. It is important that spouses are on the same page in terms of spending, or can at least reach a compromise.
If financial disputes have caused irreconcilable differences in your marriage, then divorce may be inevitable. It’s important to seek legal guidance if you find yourself in this situation.